Red patent leather is a bold move. And I’m all about being bold, in anything I do. It’s all in or nothing at all. Why half-ass something when you can just try your best and hope for success? (Gosh, I sound like a cheesy motivational ad.)
Red is my power color. I feel like a winner in red. It brings out the fierce & fearless side of me and I love that. Sometimes, I need to rely on my outfit to make me feel good. You can relate, right?
This outfit needed balance. The zippered faux patent leather skirt was sexy so I wanted to downplay the sexiness with a crisp white button-up to make it look more sophisticated. I added the cabbie hat to make the look suitable for daytime and paired it with my vintage Louis Vuitton reporter bag.
I shot this with a friend way back in October of 2018 and I remember freezing my butt off because we went to the Strip really early in the morning so we wouldn’t catch the crowds in the shot. Anything for the shot, right?
I’ve made some incredible memories at the Bellagio fountain. Reminiscing about it actually makes me cry. The fun times, the love, the heartbreak, how my heart used to flutter.,, This fountain seems to be the place I go when I want to reminisce. And that’s exactly what was going through my mind when I shot this set. My expression emulated the gratefulness I felt every time I remembered the memories made at this fountain. I’m grateful for the good and the bad. Every memory, every moment is an experience I cherish.
Thanksgiving this year was not traditional for me. In the past years, I’ve spent it with family. This year, my family went to Park City per usual but I wasn’t able to come with. So I went to a Friendsgiving at my chef friends’ place, also one of my favorite lunch spots, Valencian Gold. It was amazing and I was on doggie duty watching two Akita puppies while eating my feast. I reminisced to my most fun Thanksgiving which was 2017 when I spent a few days in Lake Tahoe and realized how far I’ve come since that time.
I’ve grown and transformed in my career, with relationships, perspective, goals in life. I keep reinventing myself and keep going through a cycle of metamorphosis. And I think that’s my normal. Growth is all I’ve known and I’m so grateful for that. I can’t imagine myself ever being stagnant and content. I crave constant movement upwards, constant grinding, persistence, and hard work.
One thing I need to learn is making time to rest. I am so often bombarded with work and obligations that I tend to prioritize that and other people before myself. I guess it’s the Cancer in me. I care a lot, sometimes too much. I need to learn when to slow down and when to grind because that is essential to growth as well. You can’t give if there’s nothing left to give. I always tell all my friends to practice self-care but I need to take my own advice because all I know is being busy on-the-go always.
Here’s a rare photo of my best friend Adrianne and I smiling for once. I gotta say, I’m really grateful for all the people who have come into my life, all the experiences I’ve shared, and all the memories made. I used to love shopping and gifts, but now all I want and value is presence. That’s it. I just need quality time, catching up, eating, hanging out, whatever. I don’t need gifts or material things. Presence is the best present.
I don’t usually put that much effort into Halloween costume because I tend to go pretty basic. Think classic sorority girl in some cheesy lingerie costume. Hey, it’s Halloween, right? Being scantily-clad in public is acceptable for this one night every year. That’s probably why I don’t have many pictures of myself on Halloween—it’s very off-brand of me to be seen wearing said costumes.
This year, I put in a little more thought and effort. This year’s blockbuster season gave me some serious inspo. I wanted to be Pennywise, but didn’t want to give myself nightmares. Instead I decided to be the female version Joker. I wanted to be not-so-basic. Joker, but make it fashion.
I wanted to keep the costume understated and sophisticated. No corny green and purple theme going on here. The vision was to keep it very classic—my own unique interpretation of Joker. So, I went with a classic Calvin Klein pinstripe black suit. Modern, sexy and sophisticated.
I wanted to give the movie a proper homage, but add my own special twist. It was definitely a challenge to get the right balance of accurate and cute. I didn’t want to look scary, and I definitely did not want to wear white face paint. My makeup only took 15 minutes! And for someone who’s not really good at makeup, I’m pretty proud of the end result.
We had a great night partying on Halloween night (which was a Thursday)! Can you believe that I didn’t have ONE drink and even went to work the next morning? Yes, I’m a trooper. It’s a lifestyle.
But the party doesn’t stop after October 31st…
We hit up a penthouse party downtown for about an hour. I haven’t been to the Ogden in a while, and I definitely missed the views at the penthouse patio. You can see the whole Las Vegas Strip from their penthouse deck. And we got to see friends who dressed up as IT and Georgie.
I came as Minnie Mouse because I honestly just got lazy. It was an easy and fun costume that didn’t get in my way or make me feel annoyed after wearing it for a bit. Plus, I hadn’t broken out that dress in a year! It was time to wear it again. This year’s Halloween was definitely different from my previous ones. I used to buy costumes but I quite like the idea of repurposing pieces from my closet to create a movie-inspired look. I think I’ll be doing this from now on…
The party didn’t stop after the penthouse. We decided to go to KAOS Dayclub & Nightclub at the Palms and I’m so grateful we did. They had just premiered their Demon Dome on Halloween and we wanted to check it out. That next Monday, KAOS closed its doors—one of my favorite clubs and also the largest dayclub in the world. It just reminds you how Vegas business works and I’m glad I’m not working for the clubs anymore.
Halloween 2019 was definitely one for the books. Best Halloween I’ve had, ever.
Every time I think of fall fashion, trends from the ’70s pop up in my mind. I’m thinking of burnt orange and woodsy tones, natural makeup, corduroys, and strappy tops. I shot this set two years ago with an incredibly talented girl named Ali who also has a very distinctive and moody photography style, which is honestly what attracted me to her talent. I felt the moodiness was perfect for the concept and I’m so happy she and I were able to create, even if only once. I love that we brought in a moody, on-trend color palette for the outfit, but had bright pops of yellow with the sunflowers. It made for the perfect balance of moodiness and brightness.
This is actually one of my favorite shoots of 2017. We explored Downtown Las Vegas and found some awesome shoot locations. I opted for a corduroy button down skirt because that’s such a trend in the colder months. Since I live in Vegas, I was still able to wear bare legs and white sneakers in the fall. But I would’ve totally paired this with over-the-knee boots for colder climates.
You can dress up the skirt with an oversized off-shoulder chunky sweater and strappy heels for brunch. Or try this skirt with a black lace camisole, a white crisp boxy oversized blazer, and over-the-knee-boots for a night out at the bar or lounge. This corduroy skirt is super versatile, and that’s why it’s still a staple piece in my closet.
This trusty bomber jacket has been with me for a few years. I love layering this on top of almost any outfit because it just gives that sleek, boyish flair that I like in my outfits. I don’t like to look overly sweet and girly or overly unkempt and boyish. I prefer to have a twist in my looks. Recently, I’ve even been pairing hype street style shirts with feminine midi skirts and a pair of nice sneakers and it’s been working out pretty well.
This cabby hat is one of my absolute faves. I cannot live without it. Hats pull together outfits so easily. It’s literally the cherry that tops off an already great outfit. I chose this cabby hat because it fits the vibe of the shoot and pairs better with the bomber jacket than a beret.
I kept the makeup pretty understated and instead chose to focus on the red lip. Not sure if you’ve ever noticed, but I prefer to keep my makeup minimal and natural, usually only changing my lip color. I wish I was adventurous with makeup, but I certainly don’t have the skill (or patience) to do makeup like most girls.
The lipstick is my absolute favorite red ever—Marc Jacobs Beauty Le Marc Lip Créme in Goddess (202). This is my go-to red. It’s the perfect orange red and complements my skin tone and personal style so well. I tend to gravitate towards warmer colors anyway… in anything. I edit my photos to be warmer. I like warmer golden tones in my bronzers, highlighters, eyeshadows, and lipsticks. I prefer warmer tones in jewelry—the reason why I usually only wear gold. Naturally, I’d gravitate towards a true orange red. Plus, this lipstick literally does not come off. I ate a full five-course dinner with my mother a week ago, and she was amazed at how my lipstick didn’t come off, even after consuming five complementary cocktails to each course. This lipstick is my Holy Grail product.
Hope you all enjoyed a trip down memory lane. Feeling nostalgic since this was one of the first shoots that really spurred my drive to take creating content seriously. Hey, we all start somewhere, right? I’ve made some great friends and incredible memories since this time. I’m eternally grateful that social media has brought so many amazing opportunities and people into my life. #blessed
I try stay true to myself. But that self is ever-evolving. I’m constantly changing, transforming. I always think of myself as a being that blooms but I also go through the cycle… I bloom, wilt, rot and start over. And I’m okay with that. In fact, I love that I go through this because each time I start over, I have more love to give, more forgiveness, more wisdom. I discover parts of myself I never even knew existed. It’s a journey, an adventure.
This set was shot back in 2017, before I even became remotely successful in my career. This was before I even got the Marketing job that fueled my passion and taught me so much (Silverton Casino, that’s you). This was before I even knew what it was like to truly love myself and prioritize myself. I looked happy, I looked radiant in these photos, but inside I was not.
At that time, it was so hard for me to even look at myself in the mirror. I couldn’t forgive myself for my past failures in my career and relationships. I couldn’t get over what I went through and just accept that I had to work through things on my own. I expected others to help me, and there’s nothing wrong with asking for help but I was way too dependent. Instead, I should have reflected within myself and fixed my issues earlier on.
I was struggling so hard with my insecurities. I was weak-minded, weak-willed, had no backbone. I was so dependent on my friends and family to make me feel validated—to make me feel like I even existed. I was self-destructive. And depressed…
I kept looking back at what could have happened had I just made different decisions in life. But that’s life. You just have to learn to let go. And that’s exactly what I did. I learned how to let go. To let go of past failures and to turn them into learning experiences. To let go of past love, and know that they will always have a place in my heart but we just weren’t right for each other. To accept that I am imperfect and that’s what makes me human and unique. To tell myself every day that I can achieve my dreams.
Fast forward to today. I’m a very different person from the girl in these photos. I’ve achieved a level of success in my career that I’m proud of. I learned how to love myself and to set my limits. I protect my “no”. I know when something is worth my time, energy, and effort. I know what I really want and need in my life. I give myself permission to glow and bloom daily. I forgive myself and others. I am more open and vulnerable. I have much more love to give. I am truly happy.
To my past self: thank you for going through everything you had to go through. I’m stronger and wiser because of you. I met incredible friends who add so much value to my life because of you. I’m becoming the person I dreamed of being because of you. Here’s to practicing more self-love, babygirl. You’re almost there.
I love food. I really mean it. I LOVE FOOD. And one of my favorite cuisines is Korean food. I love the depth of flavor, the spiciness, the certain umami in every dish. Two years ago, I had the pleasure of helping host the grand opening of my favorite Korean BBQ spot in Las Vegas, 8oz Korean Steakhouse.
Everything about this place is KBBQ heaven. Their set meals come at an affordable price but offer high-quality ingredients. And here’s the best part—they cook it for you. 8oz Korean Steakhouse is the best KBBQ spot in town because of their incredible food, amazing prices, and for the fact that they cook the meat for you.
Aside from the set meal selection, they also offer a wide range of banchan. My favorites are the fish cakes, pickled radish, kimchi, and bean sprouts. Ugh, I’m already salivating as I’m writing this…. Oh, forgot to mention that the mashed potatoes with corn is really good and so is the steamed egg! They also have addictive seafood pancakes and kimchi pancakes. I can eat those all day. The cheese fondue is made on the grill. It’s to die for!
Whenever I eat at 8oz, I always make it a point to have their mangotinis AND soju. I’m obsessed with how refreshing the mango martinis are and the sweetness balances the spiciness of KBBQ. They also carry my favorite Chumchurum brand of soju and I usually get the peach. At other places, the peach soju is almost always sold out. But not at 8oz!
Here’s a candid of me showing you how I feel about the seafood pancake.
Cheers! Go check out 8oz Korean Steakhouse here. You won’t regret it.
I have so many ideas brewing in my head and an ever-growing to-do list of all the things I have to execute in the month of August. First priority is to find another full-time job so if you know of any agencies or positions hiring for Marketing, administrative work, or social media, let me know in the comments below!
I have a special project launching soon as well… All I can say is that there’s no definite deadline on when it’ll launch but it’s a dream of mine that is so close and within my grasp. And I am so excited to finally make it happen.
Blue is my favorite color (aside from red and gold). It’s such a versatile color that I tend to wear a lot more than red and gold, which are obviously flashy and don’t pair well with everything. Blue literally pairs with anything.
This striped blue button-up is actually one of my favorite shirts in my closet. Sadly, it got stained and I’ll have to find a similar top because I absolutely love this and used to wear it all the time. I paired this shirt with my flared denim skirt from Zara, reminiscent of a pleated schoolgirl skirt. One of my favorite denim skirts in my closet as well. I paired a lot of favorites for this particular look.
I kept the accessories pretty understated and chose to go with rich browns, neutrals, and golds. I’m so in love with this gorgeous JORD watch. The Frankie watch is oversized, beautifully crafted, and definitely a statement piece but still very minimalist. I love the zebrawood material and the gold details on this watch! I don’t wear it too often because I’m scared that the dry weather in Vegas would make the wood crack and I always take proper care of this particular watch. The case is absolutely gorgeous too. Check out JORD Watches’ most recent feature of me on their Instagram in my favorite Frankie here: https://www.instagram.com/p/Bxj6rumAXyH/
I’m very simple when it comes to my jewelry. I prefer delicate, gold pieces instead of statement jewelry. The shorter necklace is from Anthropologie and the lariat is from this incredible Etsy shop called Shop Evren.
Of course my makeup is very simple as well. You all have probably noticed that I pretty much wear the same look for every shoot and every event, every appearance… Because that’s all I know as far as makeup goes. I gravitate towards peachy nudes for the lips or bright orange reds. I prefer bronzer over blush and tons of highlight. I usually keep the eyes very nude or bronze with eyeliner and mascara, and that’s it. No cut-creases, no smokey eyes (unless I’m getting it done). I simply don’t have the time to sit at my vanity and put on a full face or experiment with makeup. I’m almost always on-the-go so I tend to stick to this quick 5-minute look.
Did you notice my new tattoo? Just kidding! Inkbox is a company I collaborated with in the past and I love them! It’s a way for me to experiment with tattoos and designs before actually committing to one. I’m still pretty scared of getting one but Inkbox’s temporary tattoos give me the freedom to explore. I chose the Yu Yi tattoo which features two and a half hearts to symbolize lives in games. I thought it was super cute and reflected my often-hidden nerdy gamer self. Unfortunately, the Yu Yi tattoo is no longer available online but you can make your own custom designs and also do freehand ink if you like!
Here’s a photo of me acting like I’m not just about to get run over. I love walking shots but they are so hard to execute! Usually, I try to cross three to four times and I have to be conscious of my facial expression, my posture, that I elongate my legs, point my toes and give my skinny angle to the camera all while making sure my photographer and I don’t get run over. It’s hard work! Dunno if I actually pulled this one off though. Looking back at it, I’ve got a pretty sheepish expression on my face… *facepalm
Afterwards, we replenished with some tarts and watermelon smoothies at my favorite spot in Tivoli Village called Leone Cafe. Love this place and it is always PACKED.
The classic white button-up shirt is an essential staple piece every person needs in their closet. I have a few in my closet that all have different designs but still keep to the sophisticated and classic silhouette of a crisp, button-up shirt. Here’s how I style one of my white shirts.
I kept the look pretty simple, pairing the white button-up with denim shorts, black sides, and a trendy wide-brimmed straw hat. I tied the shirt at my waist instead of tucking it into the shorts because this top has an oversized fit, which is how I like all of my white button-up shirts.
I shot this set with my friend Juju, who is probably one of the best and most consistent photographers I’ve ever worked with. I remember it being an extremely hot summer day and we decided to shoot at Henderson Pavilion, out in the open heat midday.
I love her bright, clean photography style. And it went really well with my vision for this shoot. We found a patch of lavender bushes and decided to shoot next to it, not knowing that it was filled with bees! Bet you didn’t even know that I was panicking on the inside when you look at these photos because we gotta do everything we can for the ‘gram.
I love styling simple pieces like this because they are so versatile. I really wanted to go for a look that evokes a summer-on-the-coast kind of feel. We wanted it to look like Cali, not Vegas. And I think we pulled it off!
The shirt has a few key details in the sleeves. I love the split in the long sleeves and the bows to keep them together. It adds a sort of uniqueness that you don’t usually see in most white shirts.
I need to be open with you guys. I first started my blog years ago as a platform for me to freely express my thoughts. I vowed that I’d be real with myself and anyone who reads my blog. So here goes…
Life has been very hard.
I left a stable and secure position in Marketing & Social Media at a Las Vegas casino to pursue a “dream” I had since college. Becoming a realtor was the last “what if” on my list of dream careers and it seems like it was also the worst decision I’ve ever made in my life. Leaving my previous position has been devastating to my finances and mental health.
I no longer glow. I’m no longer happy. I rarely smile and laugh. All I know is stress and worry and anxiety, which is so ironic because I left my comfortable and fun job in hopes of bettering myself. But it was a risk I was wholeheartedly not ready to take, yet I did.
I learned so many lessons these past months. I left in February. It’s now August. I’ve still yet to secure another full time position. All I want is to feel secure and independent and happy again. I know everyone will chime in every now and then and tell me to keep my head up—stay strong. But it is so hard.
I’m not just being melodramatic here. I’ve seriously hit the lowest point in my life thus far, in terms of my career, my finances, and my happiness. I may look differently on social media. If you follow me on Instagram, it may seem like not much has changed and that I’m living my best life. But the reality is that I’m not. I’m only trying to keep it together.
I’m trying my best to redeem myself, and to get back everything that I lost but I’ve missed so many opportunities. And I’ve been rejected from quite a few…. I’m trying to stay grateful and look past it all—to know that I’ll get over this. But it’s a process. I’ve put myself back years… I regressed.
Getting through all of this is my next and most important short-term goal. Simply surviving these past six months, I’ve learned a lot about myself, my limits, and who I really am as a person. It’s tested me so many times. The sleepless nights, the stress, the anxiety. Life is just hard.
I’m so sorry if my life update isn’t what you expected. But I have to stay real and be candid with you all. If you’re going through something, know that you’re not alone. Everyone goes through their own shit and we still manage to post our best lives on social media. So be kind to everyone regardless of what’s going on with you because you never know what they’re going through.
Gingham came back these past couple years. No longer does it feel like I’m wearing a summer picnic tablecloth—it’s stylish, it’s in. My love of wrap tops and dresses paired with gingham makes for a very stylish combination.
I chose to keep the rest of the look simple and clean pairing the already busy top with my white skirt and white sneakers from Kenneth Cole. I added some warmth with my Louis Vuitton reporter bag for that vintage flair.
Cateye sunnies and a classic watch finish off the look. When it comes to prints and patterns, I tend to keep the accessories understated so the look stays classy and sophisticated.
Outfit details: Gingham Wrap Top – similar here Skirt from Boohoo Sneakers from Kenneth Cole Louis Vuitton Reporter Bag (vintage) Sunglasses – similar here Watch from Fossil Necklaces & Bracelets from Alex & Ani
Hope you enjoyed this fun summer look! Love, Danielle